Sitemap - 2023 - Love at the Edges

The Financial Cost of Being Kinky

Questioning the Quality of Mentors

Be Erotically Here Now

Celebrating Our Uniqueness

Avoiding a Sexual Agenda

Polyamory Advice

Why Curiosity Matters

Dealing With Impostor Syndrome

Getting Along

Dispelling a Pervasive Myth

Safer Spaces

My New Kink Mantra

Kink As Paradigm

My Induction Speech for John Embry

It's All About Fun

Getting Honest About Sexuality and Aging

Getting Gay Men to Attend Mixed Kink Events

Cards for Kinky Humanity

Clean Slate Sex

Keeping Your Options Open

Some Useful Links

Advice If You're New To Kink

About My Philosophy of Kink

When Your Erotic Identity Is Damaged

5 Questions – Answered by Travis Creston Detwiler

Interviewed on Watts the Safeword

Is Creativity in Kink Really Valued?

Is the Kink Scene Ageist Against Young People?

The 80/20 Rule of Sex Gear

The Need for Erotic Affinity Spaces

5 Questions – Answered by Frank Strona

Honor History, Don't Copy It

What Is a Relationship?

Being a Guest in Someone Else's Space

Am I Playing Enough?

The Old Guard That Never Was (And Why That’s a Good Thing)

Minimalist Kink

Playing Both Sides

If you're reading this, you might be queer

Yes, everyone is a little bit kinky

You Think That's Tradition?

Doing It Solo

The State of Kink

Kink and Connection

Hot Chat and Fantasy Idealization

Us versus Them in Kink Communities

The Allure of Collars

Polyamory As Orientation?

When Shared Ideas Aren't True

Avoiding Kink Exceptionalism

Prudery and Attacks on Sex

The Dynamic Nature of Sexuality

Community Is Created By Those Who Show Up

Why and When Kink Works

On Location with On Guard Cigar Salon

The Art of Delivering Our Message

Ego, Identity, and Sexuality

Embracing Body Neutrality

The Ultimate Technique

Everything I Need to Know I Learned in the Playroom

Keeping Things Safe and Consensual

The Era of Style

The Trap of Rules

Well, here we go!

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